How To Talk To Your Loved Ones About Your Final Wishes

Communicating with dear ones about death and last wishes is never pleasant, and most people are at a loss about where to start. At Mill Valley Funeral Home, we feel that the fear associated with initiating this conversation can exacerbate the problem. Here are a few steps that will help you navigate this conversation easily and communicate your wishes:

1. Create a List of Topics for Discussion

Making a list of topics to cover will assist you in keeping the discussion on the course, which might be challenging when emotions and grief are present. Conflicts and disagreements are possible. They can derail the conversation and cause disruptions, which is why it's a good thing to make a list.

2. Gather Everyone in a Convenient Setting

It's challenging to have multiple end-of-life chats with numerous individuals at different times. We recommend holding a single conversation in your house or at a location that allows for privacy and is suitable for all. Invite anyone you believe is necessary to this discussion so that you only have to talk about specific topics at once.

3. Communicate Your Intentions Clearly and Assertively

Family and friends will have their perspectives on your wishes. Specific individuals may even attempt to convince you to follow a different course. Consider their comments and opinions, but maintain your viewpoint. They must acknowledge your wishes by the conclusion of the meeting. Occasionally, family members can bring out aspects you hadn't contemplated and assist you in developing a better course of action.

These are just a few ways to talk to your loved ones about your final wishes. Please call Mill Valley Funeral Home and discuss your requirements with our team for details about funeral pricing and our services.